
Withdrawing from your retirement account may seem like a quick solution when life throws you a curveball. But what if that decision quietly costs you far more than you realize, both today and decades into the future?
In this episode of The Divorce the IRS Podcast, we break down the second major tax time bomb: early withdrawal penalties. While retirement accounts like 401(k)s and IRAs offer valuable tax advantages on the way in, accessing that money before age 59½ can trigger taxes, penalties, and long-term opportunity costs that compound over time.
Life happens. Divorce. Job loss. Home repairs. Medical expenses. Financial pressure can push even disciplined savers to tap into retirement funds. But as we illustrate through a real-world example, the true cost of early withdrawals goes well beyond the 10 percent penalty.
We walk through the case of Mike, a 35-year-old earning $110,000 per year who needs $30,000 for an emergency. To net that amount from his 401(k), he would actually need to withdraw $50,000 after accounting for federal taxes, state taxes, and penalties. What feels like a $30,000 solution becomes a $50,000 withdrawal — and potentially hundreds of thousands in lost future growth.
You will learn:
• How early withdrawal penalties work and why they are so costly
• The true tax impact of taking money out before age 59½
• How taxes and penalties can force you to withdraw far more than you need
• The long-term opportunity cost of interrupting compound growth
• Why more Americans are tapping retirement accounts early
• The limited 2024 emergency withdrawal exception and how it works
• How Roth contributions differ from traditional IRA withdrawals
• Why a properly structured emergency fund is your first line of defense
We also explore the emotional side of these decisions. While some withdrawals are unavoidable, many are preventable. Using retirement savings for non-emergencies like vehicles, weddings, or lifestyle purchases can create financial damage that lasts far longer than the purchase itself.
The solution is preparation. Establishing three to six months of living expenses in a liquid emergency fund can prevent the need to trigger unnecessary tax consequences. We also discuss how Roth contributions offer more flexibility, since contributions (not growth) can generally be accessed without taxes or penalties.
This episode is not about guilt. It is about awareness.
Retirement accounts are designed for long-term growth and long-term security. When accessed early, the damage is not just immediate. It compounds.
In the next episode, we will introduce the third tax time bomb: sharing your retirement account with the IRS — and why many retirees are surprised by how much of their savings was never truly theirs to begin with.
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To project the salary of a 30-year old woman currently earning $85,000, we used a women-specific salary curve from Morningstar Investment Management LLC, a registered investment adviser and subsidiary of Morningstar, Inc., which includes the impact of inflation. We added up her projected salary each year over her 40-year career.
We projected the salary of a 30-year old woman currently earning $85,000 and one earning $110,500 (assuming a 30% raise) using a women-specific salary curve from Morningstar Investment Management LLC, a registered investment adviser and subsidiary of Morningstar, Inc. We sum up both projected salaries over 40 years, in today’s dollars, and calculate the difference.
The banking account results assume a 1% long-term average annual cash return over 40 years.
The low end of the range assumes that you invest 20% of your salary ($85,000 currently) with a financial advisor in a diversified mutual fund portfolio comprised of 60% equity and 40% bonds, which is rebalanced to this allocation each year. Fees include average mutual fund fees and an assumed advisory management fee of 1%. The high end of the range assumes that 20% of your salary is invested with Baobab Wealth in a diversified low-cost ETF portfolio comprised of 91% equity to start and growing more conservative towards the end of the investment horizon (40 years). Fees include those for the recommended ETFs and Baobab Wealth’s fee of 0.50%.
We assume salary growth based upon a women-specific salary curve provided by Morningstar Investment Management LLC, and that you save 20% of your salary each year. These results are determined using a Monte Carlo simulation—a forward-looking, computer-based calculation in which we run portfolios and savings rates through hundreds of different economic scenarios to determine a range of possible outcomes. The results for the low end of the range reflects a 70% likelihood of achieving the amount shown or better, and the high end of the range reflects a 50% likelihood of achieving the amounts shown or better. All results include the impact of inflation, and estimated taxes paid on dividends, interest, and realized capital gains.
The results presented are hypothetical, and do not reflect actual investment results, the performance of any Baobab Wealth product, or any account of any Baobab Wealth client, which may vary materially from the results portrayed for various reasons.
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